Come Alone by Meet & Mint Events you can go to on your own

Not a date · Valencia

Meet people in Valencia without a dating app.

Meeting people does not have to be a profile. In Valencia we list 17 upcoming events built around an activity, so conversation starts with the activity.

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Tonight and this week in Valencia nobody on a date

Six upcoming events, soonest first, free ones preferred and a mix of categories. Check the official page before you go.

Tue17Nov
LearningValencia
18:00–19:55

Los caníbales by Liliana Cavani, with a cycle talk, at the Rialto

Edificio Rialto

On Tuesday 17 November 2026 at 18:00 the Filmoteca de València shows Los caníbales, I cannibali, a 1970 film by Liliana Cavani, with a presentation of the film and of the cycle Memoria y utopía by Javier H. Estrada, co-director of the Seminci festival and programmer of the cycle. The listing imagines a totalitarian Milan where collecting the corpses from the streets is forbidden. Britt Ekland plays a contemporary Antigone, determined to bury her brother, killed during a protest, and Tiresias accompanies her in a challenge that makes them beacons for a youth slowly recovering the will to fight. It was shown at the Directors' Fortnight in Cannes, with music by Ennio Morricone, and moves Sophocles' tragedy to a political dystopia. It is shown in the original version with Spanish subtitles, 95 minutes. A film introduced by its programmer is easy to attend alone. «Presentación de la película y del ciclo «Memoria y utopía» a cargo de Javier H. Estrada.» Starts 18:00, ends about 19:55. Source: Institut Valencià de Cultura, Generalitat Valenciana, open data (CC BY 4.0). The listing gives no end time, so the end shown here is estimated. The listing gives a duration of 95 minutes. The listing gives no ticket price; the Filmoteca's official admission page gives general entry as 2.50 euros.

Thu19Nov
CultureValencia
19:30–21:45

Goya, Konrad Wolf's 1971 East German painter biopic, at the Rialto

Edificio Rialto

On Thursday 19 November 2026 at 19:30 the Filmoteca de València shows Goya, oder der arge Weg der Erkenntnis, Goya, or the Hard Road to Knowledge, a 1971 film by Konrad Wolf, in the cycle Memoria y utopía of the Seminci festival. The listing says that before looking into the darkness, Goya wanted to approach the light of power. Wolf presents him as an ambitious painter, eager to please the nobility and find his place at court, until another Spain begins to open before his eyes. Beyond the salons appear poverty and a violence that also change the way he looks. The film follows that awakening as a physical experience: the early splendour gives way to ever harsher images, until the artist begins to paint what used to stay outside the canvas. It runs 134 minutes in German, with Spanish subtitles, and is based on the novel by Lion Feuchtwanger. A film about an artist is easy to attend alone. «Antes de mirar hacia la oscuridad, Goya quiso acercarse a la luz del poder.» Starts 19:30, ends about 21:45. Source: Institut Valencià de Cultura, Generalitat Valenciana, open data (CC BY 4.0). The listing gives no end time, so the end shown here is estimated. The listing gives a duration of 134 minutes. The listing gives no ticket price; the Filmoteca's official admission page gives general entry as 2.50 euros.

Fri20Nov
CultureValencia
20:15–22:05

Queen Kelly, Stroheim's 1928 silent with a new score, at the Rialto

Edificio Rialto

On Friday 20 November 2026 at 20:15 the Filmoteca de València shows La reina Kelly, Queen Kelly, Erich von Stroheim's 1928 silent film, at the Edificio Rialto in its Filmoteca premieres. The listing tells of the cruel Queen Regina V, obsessed with her frivolous fiancé Prince Wolfram. When he meets a naive but flirtatious young woman at a convent, Patricia Kelly, he falls in love, and desperate to see her before his wedding he carries her to the palace. When the queen finds them she whips the girl and throws her out, with sad consequences for both. This is a new 4K restoration of the unfinished masterpiece starring and produced by Gloria Swanson, with unseen materials used to recreate the ending from the original script and a new soundtrack composed by Eli Denson. The film runs 105 minutes with Castilian intertitles. A silent film with a modern score is easy to attend alone. «Nueva versión restaurada en 4K de la obra maestra inacabada de Erich von Stroheim.» Starts 20:15, ends about 22:05. Source: Institut Valencià de Cultura, Generalitat Valenciana, open data (CC BY 4.0). The listing gives no end time, so the end shown here is estimated. The listing gives a duration of 105 minutes. The listing gives no ticket price; the Filmoteca's official admission page gives general entry as 2.50 euros.

Sat21Nov
CultureValencia
20:30–22:05

Los girasoles ciegos, film at La Filmoteca, Valencia

La Filmoteca, Edificio Rialto

On Saturday 21 November 2026 at 20:30 La Filmoteca of the Institut Valencià de Cultura shows Los girasoles ciegos by José Luis Cuerda at the Edificio Rialto in Valencia, in its cycle for the Rafael Azcona centenary. The 2008 Spanish drama, based on the book by Alberto Méndez with a script by Azcona and Cuerda, is set in Galicia in the 1940s. The listing says that while the family copes with the hardships of the post-war years, Elena and her son keep up appearances to hide the family's secrets, among them a father who lives hidden in a hollow in the bedroom, and the arrival of a deacon with doubts about his priesthood complicates things. The film runs 95 minutes and stars Maribel Verdú, Javier Cámara and Raúl Arévalo. The page prints no ticket price. A film screening like this is easy to enjoy alone, since everyone watches the same film in the dark. «Elena y su hijo mantienen las apariencias para ocultar los secretos de la familia» Starts 20:30, ends about 22:05. Source: La Filmoteca (Institut Valencià de Cultura) official event page (ivc.gva.es). The listing gives a start at 20:30 and a film length of 95 minutes, with no ticket price printed on the page.

Wed25Nov
Free
LearningValencia
19:00–20:30

IVAM + Diseño: Izaskun Chinchilla talk, IVAM, Valencia

IVAM Centre Julio González, Auditorio

On Wednesday 25 November 2026 at 19:00 the IVAM in Valencia holds the opening session of IVAM + Diseño, a series of talks called New methodologies for a changing world, in the Auditorio of the IVAM Centre Julio González. The architect Izaskun Chinchilla, founder of Izaskun Chinchilla Architects, opens the series with a conversation about how to rethink architecture and design through ecology, care and collective participation, and about new relations between nature, materials and everyday life. The series is curated by Estudio Savage with the support of the Fundación Banco Sabadell and is aimed at the general public. Entry is free until the room is full. The page gives a start at 19:00 and no end time, so about an hour and a half is assumed. A talk like this is easy to enjoy alone, since you listen and take part as much as you like. «¿Cómo podemos diseñar espacios y objetos que respondan mejor a las personas y al planeta?» Starts 19:00, ends about 20:30. Source: IVAM (Institut Valencià d’Art Modern) official event page (ivam.es). The listing gives free entry until the room is full, a start at 19:00 and no end time, so the end shown is estimated.

Sun29Nov
Free
MusicValencia
11:30–12:45

Banda Sinfónica Municipal de València, free concert, Valencia

Palau de la Música, Sala Iturbi

On Sunday 29 November 2026 at 11:30 the Banda Sinfónica Municipal de València plays in the Sala Iturbi of the Palau de la Música in Valencia, conducted by Felix Hauswirth, with the saxophonist Mario Biendicho as soloist. The programme lists works by John Barnes, Paul Creston, Boris Kozhevnikov, Dmitri Kabalevsky and Sergei Prokofiev. The page says entry is free through the website and at the Palau box offices from 10:00 on 27 November, with limited places, two per user, until the hall is full, so a free ticket has to be collected in advance. It prints no end time, so about an hour and a quarter is assumed. A morning band concert like this is easy to enjoy alone, since everyone listens to the stage and a single ticket is enough. «Localidades limitadas (2 por usuario) hasta completar aforo» Starts 11:30, ends about 12:45. Source: Palau de la Música de València official event page (palauvalencia.com). The listing gives free entry with a ticket collected from 10:00 on 27 November, a start at 11:30 and no end time, so the end shown is estimated.

Formats

Where you talk without pressure

These formats give you a task or a topic, so you never have to open with small talk. Pages for Valencia:

  • Language cafés in Valencia: The topic is built in: everyone is there to practise, so asking a stranger a question is the point.
  • Game nights in Valencia: The game gives your hands something to do and everyone something to talk about.
  • Padel and pickleball in Valencia: Doubles games where partners rotate, so one session puts you on court with several different people.
  • Walk and talk: Walking side by side is easier than sitting face to face. (all cities; nothing for Valencia yet)
  • Book clubs and silent reading: Either you discuss one book, or nobody has to talk at all. (all cities; nothing for Valencia yet)
  • Library nights: Free, low-key programmes in a place where it is normal to be alone. (all cities; nothing for Valencia yet)
  • New in town guide: A practical first-weeks guide with events for newcomers.
  • Answers for Valencia: short answers to common questions about going out alone, with names and dates.

How to go alone

Five steps for your first time

  1. Choose a single event with a clear start time and a host. "Los caníbales by Liliana Cavani, with a cycle talk, at the Rialto" is a good candidate.
  2. Check the details on the official page, since schedules and prices change.
  3. Arrive ten minutes early and tell the host you came alone. Hosts usually seat or introduce newcomers.
  4. Ask people how they found the event. Stay for the first hour, then leave or stay as you like.
  5. Repeat it next week. The second visit is easier because people recognise you; Meet & Mint shows who is going.

Alternatives to dating apps

What actually works, compared

A neutral comparison of five ways to meet people through shared activities. None needs a profile; the last column shows what we list for Valencia.

FormatWhy conversation startsWorks well if youTypical costCommitmentIn Valencia now
Dinners with strangersA shared table and a host who seats youLike longer one-to-one conversationThe price of a mealOne evening, often booked aheadnone in our data yet
Run clubsYou move at the same pace and talk on the movePrefer doing something active to small talkOften free or low costWeekly; talking is optionalnone in our data yet
Language cafésEveryone is practising, so starting a chat is expectedWant a ready-made reason to talkFree or the cost of a coffeeDrop-in9 listed
Game nightsThe game provides the topic and something to doEnjoy light competition or puzzlesFree or a small table feeDrop-in, two to three hours2 listed
VolunteeringA shared task and a teamWant to meet people with similar valuesFreeRegular shifts matter more than one visitnone in our data yet

Questions people ask

How do I meet people in Valencia without a dating app?

Go to a hosted group activity where the activity does the introducing. We list 17 upcoming events in Valencia (music, culture, learning); the soonest include "Los caníbales by Liliana Cavani, with a cycle talk, at the Rialto" and "Goya, Konrad Wolf's 1971 East German painter biopic, at the Rialto".

Is it weird to go to an event alone in Valencia?

No. Many of the formats we list, such as language cafés and game nights, are designed for people who arrive alone, and hosts expect newcomers. Tell the host you are new and they will usually introduce you.

Are these dating events in Valencia?

They are group activities, not dating events. You go for the activity and the company; any romance is a side effect we cannot promise.

Are there free things to do alone in Valencia?

Yes. 2 of the 17 upcoming events we list in Valencia are free, including 2 in the next 30 days. Language cafés, library programmes and many walks cost nothing.

I'm new to Valencia and shy. Where do I start?

Pick something where you do things rather than only talk, such as a game night or a guided walk. Commit to one hour. In Meet & Mint you can chat with the group before you arrive, which makes the first minutes easier.

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How it works

Meet & Mint in Valencia: how it works

  1. Find an event on Come Alone or in the Meet & Mint map and open the official page for the details.
  2. Join alone in the app: you see how many people are going and can read the group chat.
  3. Say hello before in the chat, so the first minutes at the venue are with names you know.
  4. Meet at the event and decide afterwards whether to go again. Nobody is on a date.

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